Quite time to think

Listen to this postI was fortunate to visit Versailles Palace in France many years ago. After the guided tour we were given free time to walk through the place gardens. The gardens were beautiful and a simple walk through them would reduce your blood pressed by at least 10 mmHg. At the start of my walk I noticed an elderly couple setting on a long chair watching the beautiful view in front of them. They were about one meter a part (3 feet) from each other. I continued my walk around and came back to the same spot after 20 minutes and set down on a single chair and notice that the couple still at their same silence and still looking at the beautiful view ahead. I thought that what they were doing was boring and they might have reached the age were nothing matters anymore. So I sat and started enjoying the view and get lost in my thoughts. Before I knew it, I spent more than an hour of complete silence, similar to what the elderly couple were doing, and it was wonderful!

A distant family member in his 70’s used to set in his wheelchair for hours watching the sea. When we pass-by and greet him he sometimes replay to us and sometimes he just ignore us as if we do not exist. He seems lost in his thoughts and living his past by just watching the sea. Few years after that gentleman pass away I went to the Maldives islands. I use to set in the balcony of my bungalow after the tiresome deep water dives. Each time I set I get lost in my thoughts and spend hours relaxing and enjoying the ocean’s calm waters.
Lately, I do not have the luxury of traveling to these nice places but I still set alone in quite places for at least 30 minutes 3 times every week. I lay down or set without watching TV, listening to music or reading a book. I just relax and let my thoughts flow slowly and reflect on the things I have done or the problems I face. After about 30 minutes I would have good thoughts and practical solutions to whatever challenges I have. Just by simply setting alone and thinking. No TV, no music, no reading or writing, just plain simple thinking. My best ideas and most important decisions were the results of those quite sessions. The sad thing that many people live their lives without setting once in a quite session like that, and they miss the opportunity to clear up their minds and generate wonderful ideas. Go ahead, please try it for half an hour and you will start generating wonderful thoughts and ideas after you pass the 30 minutes mark, trust me!

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4 Responses to Quite time to think

  1. Dr Abeer says:

    That’s why each human needs a daily free responsibility moments to recharge his battery.The Q is how to find those moments in our daily busy life?.I really enjoy those moments, but can’t find the time for them ?!!!!.
    after reading your post I’m inspired…

  2. iqbalgreen says:

    Thank you Sami . I tried it many .. many years ago .It’s actually my way of living . It’s really relaxing and enjoyable . I taught it to my husband and sons too .. It is sort of meditation that brings you happiness and peace that changing your life positively !!! Just give it a try and you will see the difference🙂

  3. Bu Yousef says:

    This is very different to what I thought you replied to me on twitter… This is much better and deeper! I like how you still set time aside. The people I was thinking of were only ‘thinking’ of one thing when sitting at Starbucks Avenues for three hours🙂

    Very nice post.

    • Well, the other “thinking” is beyond my the intreats of this blog and I also amaze how those people have this much of time to waste.

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